It is Not Hateful to Stand for What is Right
The wicked strut freely about when what is vile is honored among men. Psalms 12:8, NIV
Their idea of pleasure is to carouse in broad daylight II Peter 2:12, NIV
And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper.
Romans 1:28, NAS
In a town just 15 minutes from where I live, there have been sad things happening. In the past year this town hosted a "pride day" in one of their parks. They invited grown men to dress up as women and perform for the crowds. Many brought their children to this event so that they could get in on the fun. In recent days folks at their college, a fine university of which I myself am a proud alumni, decided they would hold a "drag" event for "charity". To his credit, the president of the university said that it could not take place.
And the wrath of Hell has fallen upon this man.
He has been called every name in the book, I won't go into the list, but the overall theme is that he is hateful. The side of those who want to invite grown men to dress in women's clothing and perform whatever acts they might deem appropriate for the cause of charity, is absolutely convinced that this man is hateful. He is hateful because men should be allowed to do whatever they want to do... and he won't let them. He is hateful because this event was to raise money for those who were suicidal... and he wouldn't let them. He is hateful for daring to not lend the university's prestige to this event of homosexuals living out their fantasies in public.
But, understand this. It is not hateful to stand for what is right.
Sometimes standing for what is right necessitates taking a stand against what is wrong. It is not mankind who decided that homosexuality is a sin - it was God. But some men will say that "love is love is love" and the Bible commands us to love one another. All it takes is a casual knowledge of the Scriptures to understand the error of this idea. In I Corinthians 6:19, I Timothy 1:10, and the latter part of Romans chapter 1, we read without ambiguity, that homosexuality is sin. Further, like all sin, we read that it will cause those who act in such ways to be lost for all eternity unless they repent from that sin.
It is not a difficult concept to understand, but the people of this world do not accept it. That's okay, rejecting God's will is indeed an option for all men as long as they draw breath, but it is not an option that can be taken without consequences.
And it should be acknowledged by fair-minded men that a person should have the option of not going along with any sin. The children of the god of this world (Satan) will not like it. They will rail against you and call you names, but it does not change for a moment what is right and wrong in God's eyes. In the end, we must understand, it will only be His opinion that matters. He still loves us. He gave His only Son to die for our sins that we might not have to live apart from Him for all eternity. He extends His grace to those who will accept it. But make no mistake about this fact: His grace cannot be used as an excuse to sin (Romans 6).
One final thought. If I have a two year old who is angry because I will not let him play in traffic, such a refusal does not mean that I hate him. In fact, my motivation is the exact opposite of hate. Furthermore, I am not gong to play in traffic with him to make him feel better for his foolish behavior. Again, I will do just the opposite because I love him and I will not put him or me at unnecessary risk just to indulge his immature whims.
To take a stand against destructive behavior is not hateful. And, to the man of courage who currently has the position of President of this college, know that there are many who are praying for you and who sincerely appreciate your loving stand.