How to Get Your Life Right
Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn of Me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.
Matthew 11:28-30, KJV
Do you feel unsettled! Maybe not necessarily because everything is wrong and there is some sort of impending doom hanging over your head, but you do feel unsettled in heart and soul. Or perhaps everything is wrong and you do feel like impending doom is waiting just around the next corner. What can we do in such cases?
Jesus has already given us the answer, hasn't He?
But I realize this might not be a thorough enough answer for most of us, at least not at first, so we will need to do a little examination into the source of our problems - maybe even a lot of examination at that. But, how can we start?
There is a very practical method available to us, and it is as old as the hills. Some attribute the solution I am about to set forth as originating from Socrates, who lived nearly 500 years before Christ. However, whether Socrates really did discover this method is not only disputable, but it is completely unimportant, because the method that I am about to lay out today is based in Scriptural truths. In other words, these principles that we will be looking at will work because they in their very essence have their basis in the Creator Himself. So, what is this method for solving all the world's problems? It is simply this:
1. Define the problem
2. Analyze the problem
3. Come up with a solution
4. Act on that solution
Thise are the bare bones of the solution, but let's add an important element: Make it prayerful! Now such a plan for solving your problems will look something like this: Prayerfully define the problem. Prayerfully analyze the problem. Make a prayerful solution. Prayerfully act on that solution.
This is a better refinement, but it is not enough. I think you will find the true success in handling your problems will involve a working knowledge of God's Word - the Bible. So, now, your solution will involve a basic understanding of how God wants you to approach your problem and will look something like this: Prayerfully define the problem with an understanding from the Scripture what may have led to that problem. Prayerfully analyze the problem, looking at God's Word to guide you in determining what mistakes you may have made to get you into such a mess. Next, seek God's Word for a solution, always entreating God for help along the way. You will find the Sermon on the Mount and Proverbs especially helpful for this step. Finally, guided by God's sacred Word and prayer, begin to act upon your problem. Use the popular philosophy of praying as if everything depended upon God, and then working as if everything depended on your efforts.
Now, we have something! Of course, not everything requires so thorough a search of Biblical truths, but each circumstance will still be helped by your familiarity with God's Word, and everything will be remarkably enhanced by prayer.
Here is an example:
1. My foot hurts - that is the problem.
2. I will now analyze the problem, and by doing so I note that my foot is caught in a bear trap.
3. I will come up with a prayerful solution, and that solution will distil down to the fact that I have to get my foot out of the bear trap and then get medical treatment.
4. I will take my foot out of the bear trap and seek medical assistance.
Or, how about something more relevant?
1. Perhaps we are depressed. We know from Scripture that Jesus has promised help for those who are weary and heavy ladened, so we will bring our problem to God, by praying through Christ, and we already know from a simple study of the Word that whatever we need, we can go to the Father and ask for it in Jesus' name.
2. Prayerfully, we begin to define the problem. Perhaps we have been drinking to forget our problems. Perhaps we have been involved in some other form of sin, only to discover that God's Word is right and that sin brings many sorrows. Perhaps we have started avoiding other Christians because we are ashamed of our behavior and their association makes us uncomfortable. Perhaps we have even stopped meeting with the church on the first day of the week because of that discomfort. All through this process, we are prayerfully seeking God's guidance, help, and wisdom.
3: Now is the part for a prayerful solution. We realize that a big part of our depression is that we have abandoned God and Jesus. It is important to understand that They did not leave us - we left Them. So, now, we begin this path of solution. We have sinned, and we need to repent - so we do! And we ask for God's forgiveness, and then we seek His instruction for our guide. We know that drunkenness in any form of substance abuse is wrong, so we make plans to begin our journey out of that sin. If it is a heavy addiction, it will take time and we may have to seek the help of others - the church is a great place to start. This being the case, we make plans to re-establish our precious relationship with our brothers and sisters in Christ and we make plans to begin to worship again.
4. We act upon our solution, looking to God for help every step of the way, both through prayer and through the counsel of His divine Word.
Whatever our challenge, whether it is something as simple as having our foot caught in a bear trap, or as serious as our soul caught in Satan's trap, we have a basic framework that will help us out of the problem. And, it doesn't even have to be a problem, per se. Perhaps we want to reduce our debt or save for college or retirement. Perhaps we want to get in better physical shape, perhaps we desire to study God's Word more - whatever the circumstance, if it is important enough for us to deeply consider it, this basic solution will work.
However, we need to be realistic: It will only work with God's help! So, we are going to have to know what God wants us to do from His inspired Word, and we are going to have to ask for His help in Jesus' Name, as Jesus Himself instructed us.
Is there something in your life that is not quite right? Maybe this will help. It's at least worth considering, isn't it!