Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it. 

Proverbs 22:6, ESV

So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

Romans 10:17, ESV

 

Have you ever thought how important it is for your child to develop their own faith? 

 

One of the greatest failures that many parents go through is allowing their children to go out into the world with the faith of Mom and Dad instead of their own. Now, I don't want this to be misunderstood, because I do believe that we parents need to share a common faith with our kids, and the best way to ensure that our children will know the truth that is taught in God's Word is for we parents to teach them that truth. And the only way we can teach them the truth is to know what it is ourselves.

 

When we look at these two Biblical truths above, we come to these conclusions: First, we understand that it is a duty of all parents to train our children in the way they should go, and that necessarily means God's way. Further, Jesus revealed that He is the way and that no man can come to the Father except through Him. Second, the process of training a child in the way he should go will involve an understanding of the child's own aptitude and personality. While it is true that there is only one truth contained within the Scriptures, each child will have his or her own personal strengths and weaknesses, so we need to be aware of that when we are training them.

 

It's akin to a baseball team. There are 9 different positions, from the infielders to the outfielders, and from the pitcher to the catcher. All have different strengths and different roles to play, but all are playing the same game by the same set of rules. In a like fashion, your kids will have their own special set of skills, but all must live by the same set of Biblical rules. So, we teach them these Biblical truths, but we also recognize our children's unique strengths and weaknesses, and we train them accordingly. A vital part of that training will involve their coming into contact with God's Word, so we start them out as infants by simply talking to them about God and perhaps reading sound Bible story books to them. We enhance this training by taking them to Bible classes at the church, as well as making sure that we are worshipping together with the church.

 

And while I believe that no child should be given the choice of attending the Bible classes and worship that the parents have determined are necessary, I also believe that this needs to be carefully approached so that the children will see this as something that is pleasant as well as needed for them to be obedient to their Father in Heaven. 

 

Here, though, is where so many of us make our big mistake: While it is true that we parents have the duty to ensure our children are worshipping with the church and reading the word of God, there must be something in that part of the training that makes our children want to do these things, and especially as they mature into their teen years. You will never have a problem motivating your kids to play the sports they want to play, but unless they have a passion for that sport, they might not want to go to all of the practices or put in the hard work necessary for them to excel at the sport. In this case, the ones who are the best at sports are the ones who not only have a talent for that sport, but also a passion and love for it that will motivate them to the practice and hard work needed to do their best.

 

Here comes the point, and the tricky part: In order for our children to develop their own faith, they are not only going to have to hear the words of God and Christ, but they are going to have to want to hear those words! In short, they are not only going to have to understand the basic truths about God, but somewhere along the line they are going to have to develop a passion for God's Word and a love for Christ. I'm not saying that this will be easy - it is not - but I am saying that this is a fundamental part of every parent's duty. And the reason for our understanding that duty is this: If you force your religion on your kids where it becomes an unpleasant thing, if you drag them kicking and screaming to the worship each week, if you give them a view of God that He is somehow unloving and cruel and that He is just waiting for them to step out of line so that He can crush them, then when that day comes when they leave your house to start lives of their own, do not be surprised when they not only leave your home, but leave God as well.

 

And the reason for this is simple: We have trained our children up not so much to love God and Christ, but to fear them! And while the fear of God is vital, if we only teach them the "terror part" and leave out the respect and duty and especially the love parts of service, then they will likely just leave a religion that they have come to know as cruel and unloving.

 

So, what is the solution? It begins with our own hearts - we must first love God and Christ and desire above all else to serve them as best we can. We will do that when we realize the depth of Their love for us! Remember, God loved you so much that He gave you life in the first place, and then He gave you His only begotten Son to die for your sins. And Jesus? Well, Jesus loved us so much that He was willing to die for our sins! Once we have fully understood and embraced these truths, it will be then that we can introduce our children to God and Christ - and we will do so with a passion! That passion for service that stems from a wholehearted love for God is infectious, and will certainly spread to their own lives if we train them in the right way.

 

Though it will take time, these little ones will grow up with a love and respect for God that will motivate them to find out what they need to be doing to please Him. And while it is true that you will have already been teaching your kids about these very things, their love for God and Christ will further motivate them to want to serve them. That means that doing things like reading the Bible on their own and getting ready to go to Bible classes and worship, will no longer be things that they view as "have to do" but "get to do"! And by coming to this stage of maturity, they will be developing their own faith.

 

Then, they will be ready to go off into the real world, because they will have their own faith!

 

It is a hard thing to raise our children in such a way, but when you really think about it, everything truly worthwhile is hard! The reward, however, is worth it!

 

Do your kids have their own faith? It is a question we all must do our best to ensure that we can answer in the affirmative. Not only is it our duty, but it is also our privilege! And make no mistake, nothing less than our children's eternal souls are at stake, so we must do our best to answer this question in the right way. 

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth. 

II Timothy 2:15, ESV

 

There are a lot of theories as to what caused the period from the 5th to the 15th centuries to be referred to as the Dark Ages, but there is not much dispute as to the difficulties that mankind endured. The Dark Ages more than anything was hallmarked for its lack of any great advancements. It seemed to be a time of widescale backwardness, where education was mainly available to the nobility and priesthood, while the masses were intentionally kept ignorant. So, what brought about this period where the halt of mankind's intellectual progression was not only halted for a while, but actually regressed?

 

To understand that, one needs to know the things that were going on just before those dark ages started, and I believe this period of regression was ushered in by a suppression of God's Word. The religious leaders of the time seemed more interested in money and power (sound familiar) than anything and determined that the best way to safeguard their status was to keep the people ignorant. It has long been known that knowledge is a key to power, so these wicked men decided to keep as much knowledge as they could to themselves.

 

So, they declared the Word of God so special that it needed to be kept in its present form, having already been translated from its original languages of Greek and Aramaic to Latin. Since only the nobility and priesthood were considered worthy enough of serious education, the Bible began its trek to becoming a "closed book". Over the years, religious leaders even banned the reading of the Bible by those who were not part of "clergy". All the elements were now present to usher in the Dark Ages, and they remained "dark" for nearly a thousand years.

 

Then came the time of the Renaissance, also known as the enlightenment. It was an explosion of innovation and education. Instead of being discouraged, thinking for yourself was now encouraged. Education was now encouraged, and the masses began to become literate. It was a remarkable time, especially when one considers the times in which the world was escaping. 

 

But what happened?

 

Simply put, the Dark Ages ended when the Light returned!

 

And the Light, in this case, was the true Light of the World. John Wycliffe, the "Morning Star of the Reformation" with his team of scholars had translated the Bible from the special language of the elite (Latin) to the common language of the masses (known as Middle English). A short time later, Martin Luther translated the Bible into German, and then William Tyndale came along with his translation. Johannes Gutenberg invented the printing press and the first book to roll off of that press was none other than the Bible.

 

The Catholic Church saw the dangers that were being created too late. They tried everything from banning the reading of the Bible by non-clergy, to the chaining of the Bible to the pulpit, but to no avail. The Light had already gotten out, and once it did it spread throughout the world.

 

And the Dark Ages were ended by the only thing that could combat darkness - light! And in this case, it was the Light of the world, and it had its effect of changing the world. After a thousand years, the world went from the Dark Ages to the Enlightenment in just a few generations!

 

Do you ever feel like you are going through your own "dark age"? If so, you might want to check - you may have misplaced your Light!

 

If it's been a while since you have seriously read and studied your Bible, I suspect you would be the first to admit that you often feel like you are stumbling around in the dark. The bad news is that this darkness has been self-imposed. No one banned you from reading God's Word. No one chained it to a pulpit. You did it to yourself! The good news is that the Light is readily available to bring an end to any dark age that you may be currently experiencing in your life. All you have to do is to open up your Bible and let its Light shine in your life once again. 

 

 

... I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through Him who gives me strength. 

Philippians 4:10-12. NIV (1978)

 

There was once a man whose dream it was to someday visit Europe. His problem was that he was a man of modest means, working at a school as a custodian. He was a friendly man who worked hard at his trade, and the people at this school not only admired his work ethic but also treasured his friendship. They knew of his dream to someday visit Europe, and they decided that this would be the perfect gift for this friend and coworker that they so admired.

 

So, they pooled their money together and purchased for him a ticket aboard a luxury cruise ship that was scheduled to travel to the ports of European cities that he had always dreamed of visiting. The man was deeply moved by his friends' generous gift, but he had a problem: he would not, he was sure, be able to afford the expensive meals that would be served in the ship's 5-star restaurant. So, he came up with a plan and packed a suitcase full of crackers and tins of Vienna sausages. His plan worked out well, and the places that he was able to see on his trip were beyond his highest expectations. His only problem was that he underestimated the amount of food he would need, so he cut back drastically and was just barely making it on his reduced rations. 

 

One day, close to the end of this tour, a porter came by his room for a routine visit, and he noticed the suitcase that the man had inadvertently left open on this day. He noticed a few packages of crackers and a single tin of those sausages, and a dawning of reality began to set in. The porter had remembered that he had often seen empty tins and wrappers when he had emptied the man's trash as part of his duties, and then he remembered something else: He had not once seen the man in the ship's restaurant.

 

Curious, he asked the man about the situation and was stunned to find out that the man had half-starved himself living off of these subsistence rations. He then stunned the man with this question, "Didn't you know that the meals were included in the price of the cruise?"  

 

And, of course, this sweet man did not. He then realized that if he had just thought the matter through that he would have realized that his friends would not have sent him on a trip, no matter how wonderful, without making provisions for his food. Embarrassed, but relieved, the man gratefully ate with the rest of the passengers in the 5-star restaurant for the few remaining days of his cruise.

 

What, you may be wondering, does this story have to do with the verses we started with? For that matter, what does this story have to do with anything at all?

 

Just this: God has given you and I a very precious gift. Not only has He given us life itself, but He has given us the promise of eternal life, for those who will accept His terms. In addition to these gifts, Jesus has given us the greatest gift of all - His life for ours! 

 

I think most of us realize this and are most appreciative for these gifts. Still, we often live a life that is subpar. We worry about whether we will have enough money to get by, whether our families will have the health we desire them to have, and whether we will be able to keep our jobs. We worry about whether it will rain or not, whether our cars will hold together for a little longer, and whether or not we will find the happiness that we all seek. The fact is that this life comes complete with challenges and disappointments, but we so very often turn them into tragedies instead of mere problems that can be solved and which God can help us through. 

 

And very often we live with one other worry - whether or not we will be saved! How sad this is, for God has shown us what He desires, and He has promised to help us every step of our lives. In the same way the man whose friends gifted him with a wonderful trip of a lifetime, God has gifted us with the secret of contentment. But, like the man who did not realize the scope of his gift, we often fail to realize the magnitude of the gift God and Jesus have given to us - they have gifted us with a life filled with contentment, if we will just trust them, and then they have given us the gift of eternal life.

 

It is a wonderful gift, but all too many of us are starving spiritually because we simply have failed to understand just how complete this gift is. We have been given life and contentment but often we live in ignorance of the contentment0 part of the gift.

 

So the question I want to leave you with is this: Are you content with this great gift of life that God has blessed you with... or are you starving to death? It's something worth considering, don't you think?

 

Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn of Me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 

For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light. 

Matthew 11:28-30, KJV

 

Do you feel unsettled! Maybe not necessarily because everything is wrong and there is some sort of impending doom hanging over your head, but you do feel unsettled in heart and soul. Or perhaps everything is wrong and you do feel like impending doom is waiting just around the next corner. What can we do in such cases?

 

Jesus has already given us the answer, hasn't He?

 

But I realize this might not be a thorough enough answer for most of us, at least not at first, so we will need to do a little examination into the source of our problems - maybe even a lot of examination at that. But, how can we start?

 

There is a very practical method available to us, and it is as old as the hills. Some attribute the solution I am about to set forth as originating from Socrates, who lived nearly 500 years before Christ. However, whether Socrates really did discover this method is not only disputable, but it is completely unimportant, because the method that I am about to lay out today is based in Scriptural truths. In other words, these principles that we will be looking at will work because they in their very essence have their basis in the Creator Himself. So, what is this method for solving all the world's problems? It is simply this:

 

1. Define the problem

2. Analyze the problem

3. Come up with a solution

4. Act on that solution

 

These are the bare bones of the solution, but let's add an important element: Make it prayerful! Now such a plan for solving your problems will look something like this: Prayerfully define the problem. Prayerfully analyze the problem. Make a prayerful solution. Prayerfully act on that solution. 

 

This is a better refinement, but it is not enough. I think you will find the true success in handling your problems will involve a working knowledge of God's Word - the Bible. So, now, your solution will involve a basic understanding of how God wants you to approach your problem and will look something like this: Prayerfully define the problem with an understanding from the Scripture what may have led to that problem. Prayerfully analyze the problem, looking at God's Word to guide you in determining what mistakes you may have made to get you into such a mess. Next, seek God's Word for a solution, always entreating God for help along the way. You will find the Sermon on the Mount and Proverbs especially helpful for this step. Finally, guided by God's sacred Word and prayer, begin to act upon your problem. Use the popular philosophy of praying as if everything depended upon God, and then working as if everything depended on your efforts.

 

Now, we have something! Of course, not everything requires so thorough a search of Biblical truths, but each circumstance will still be helped by your familiarity with God's Word, and everything will be remarkably enhanced by prayer.

 

Here is an example:

 

1. My foot hurts - that is the problem.

2. I will now analyze the problem, and by doing so I note that my foot is caught in a bear trap.

3. I will come up with a prayerful solution, and that solution will distil down to the fact that I have to get my foot out of the bear trap and then get medical treatment.

4. I will take my foot out of the bear trap and seek medical assistance.

 

Or, how about something more relevant? 

 

1. Perhaps we are depressed. We know from Scripture that Jesus has promised help for those who are weary and heavy ladened, so we will bring our problem to God, by praying through Christ, and we already know from a simple study of the Word that whatever we need, we can go to the Father and ask for it in Jesus' name.

 

2. Prayerfully, we begin to define the problem. Perhaps we have been drinking to forget our problems. Perhaps we have been involved in some other form of sin, only to discover that God's Word is right and that sin brings many sorrows. Perhaps we have started avoiding other Christians because we are ashamed of our behavior and their association makes us uncomfortable. Perhaps we have even stopped meeting with the church on the first day of the week because of that discomfort. All through this process, we are prayerfully seeking God's guidance, help, and wisdom.

3. Now is the part for a prayerful solution. We realize that a big part of our depression is that we have abandoned God and Jesus. It is important to understand that They did not leave us - we left Them. So, now, we begin this path of solution. We have sinned, and we need to repent - so we do! And we ask for God's forgiveness, and then we seek His instruction for our guide. We know that drunkenness in any form of substance abuse is wrong, so we make plans to begin our journey out of that sin. If it is a heavy addiction, it will take time and we may have to seek the help of others - the church is a great place to start. This being the case, we make plans to re-establish our precious relationship with our brothers and sisters in Christ and we make plans to begin to worship again. 

4. We act upon our solution, looking to God for help every step of the way, both through prayer and through the counsel of His divine Word.

 

Whatever our challenge, whether it is something as simple as having our foot caught in a bear trap, or as serious as our soul caught in Satan's trap, we have a basic framework that will help us out of the problem. And, it doesn't even have to be a problem, per se. Perhaps we want to reduce our debt or save for college or retirement. Perhaps we want to get in better physical shape, perhaps we desire to study God's Word more - whatever the circumstance, if it is important enough for us to deeply consider it, this basic solution will work.

 

However, we need to be realistic: It will only work with God's help! So, we are going to have to know what God wants us to do from His inspired Word, and we are going to have to ask for His help in Jesus' Name, as Jesus Himself instructed us.

 

Is there something in your life that is not quite right? Maybe this will help. It's at least worth considering, isn't it!